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| Allsuperstar101 |
Posted: Nov 5 2009, 10:31 AM
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Hole Punch ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1187 Group: Members |
I have a HUGE problem at school so here it was:
Our school went on a field trip for history class. I had to wake up at 6am because we had to be at school for 7:30am! I arrived at school for the halloween dance a guy asked me to dance and I said ok. Everybody was like oh do you want to date him? and blah blah blah... And apperanly the guy really likes me and was to afraid to ask me to go out with him. But the problem was I don't like him (well not that way at least!). And well not to be shallow or anything he is the nerd in his grade he's in grade 7 i'm in grade 8! So this girl goes and ask him out for me (I never wanted her too!) And now people are saying were bf and gf! When we arrived, I tried to avoid him! My friends told me he kept smiling and staring at me! I didn't really like that at all! So I wanted to break up with him but my friends said no you better not break up with him give him a chance you don't know him! But other people are saying if you don't like him brake up with him! Plus one of my friends were sick so they couldn't come and help me! Other horrible things happened to me yesturday! Like I am not at school because I got sick! But he's really bothering me in my head what should I do saty with him or break up with him? |
| purpleyprincess |
Posted: Nov 5 2009, 08:41 PM
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Agenda ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1997 Group: Members |
Wow. o.0 Uhm. That's a pretty tough ordeal. If it were me, I'd have some harsh words for the girl that asked him out for you. >< And what you do honestly depends on how you feel, but, yet again, if it were me, I'd just walk up to the guy and explain that it was all an accident. Tell him that the other girl asked him out for you withought your permission, and that you don't like him that way, so you'd rather not date him. Or, if it's more your style, you could ask that girl to go back to him and tell him that it was a mistake. Your choice. But I don't think it's really a good idea to be dating someone who you don't like in the first place. ♦тђαℓια/нσℓℓy/vισℓєтραω♦ |
| dream12 |
Posted: Nov 5 2009, 09:50 PM
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Agenda ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1850 Group: Members |
Wow, this is really messed up.
K:Well, u have to them him it was just a mistunderstanding.U have to tell him that u went to the dance with him cause you wanted to be friends, not BF and GF.Listen, your going to hurt him more if you "pretend" to be his GF then telling him the truth, caus ethen he thinks you felt sorry for him and such...etc..U get it? Hope it this works out! ~think calm colours~ -dream12 |
| Zone_BigT |
Posted: Nov 5 2009, 10:49 PM
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Agenda ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1667 Group: Members |
If you dont like him then break up with him. But say you can still be friends and it isnt him that it is you. Srry if that does not help but thats the only way i can put it.
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| cuttie123 |
Posted: Nov 5 2009, 11:07 PM
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Binder ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3088 Group: Members |
sounds horable i had a bad sickniss:i had a cold,sowrthout,feaver(made me freezing!)...cough...
cuttie123 ^^ _!_ |
| Allsuperstar101 |
Posted: Nov 6 2009, 06:35 PM
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Hole Punch ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1187 Group: Members |
Ok here's another thing he is CRAZY over me! And I mean it and everybody will hate me if I say that to him because a lot of people make fun of him! So I don't know what to do?
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| swimmerboy54 |
Posted: Nov 6 2009, 07:54 PM
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Notebook ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 869 Group: Members |
wow well i know that us guys like to be told sooner than later so if i were in your postion i would tell him it was a misunderstanding. hope that helped:)
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| lilnosehair44 |
Posted: Nov 8 2009, 08:51 PM
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Well, you should break up with him if you don't love him (although technically it's no dating if you weren't even willing to date him in the first place, and you haven been "dating"for a few days or whatever"). Although, I'm gonna' be complately honest, sorry to sa this, but it is a little shallow to not want to go out with somebody because he is a nerd. Nerds have feelings too...
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| Allsuperstar101 |
Posted: Nov 9 2009, 08:53 PM
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Hole Punch ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1187 Group: Members |
Ok I tried to dump him! But I couldn't do it. Instead what happen is that I KISSED him!
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| purpleyprincess |
Posted: Nov 9 2009, 10:36 PM
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Agenda ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1997 Group: Members |
Whattt!?! How does that work!?! ~тђαℓια/нσℓℓy/vισℓєтραω~ ~ Let it Snow! ^^ ~ |
| AlyCat53 |
Posted: Nov 10 2009, 04:00 PM
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Hole Punch ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1302 Group: Members |
ok Ame, did YOU kiss him? or did HE kiss you?
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| Allsuperstar101 |
Posted: Nov 11 2009, 11:09 PM
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Hole Punch ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1187 Group: Members |
Well the next day, I broke up with him (the day after the kiss!) and he was crying for 2 hours straight and he was still sad today. And at school I only want to be friends but at home I want to be more! So I told him exactly that and that we might go back together. So now I have a decision to make should I go back together or stay friends!
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| dream12 |
Posted: Nov 13 2009, 04:59 PM
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Agenda ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1850 Group: Members |
That's a long complicated story.......
Well,if u really like him and all try being friends. I dont think you should start to "date" him after all of this...maybe in the near furture,but not so fast....... But my question to you is how did u not like him and kissed him? |
| bolter79 |
Posted: Nov 13 2009, 07:51 PM
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Binder ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3363 Group: Members |
Wow o_O
You're in Grade 8 too? High five! But wait, you kissed?! How does that happen? Anyways, if you really like him, then go back together. If you only said it and not meant it, just say you think it's best to stay friends. And if nothing works, restraining orders always help ^^ |
| Allsuperstar101 |
Posted: Nov 14 2009, 04:22 PM
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Hole Punch ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1187 Group: Members |
Ok I figured it out! I am going to just break up with him and forget about him! All this is just to much for me! I feel like singing to him:
Why are you so obessed with me? Yeah i'm listening to that right now! |